What is the first hablet of highly effective people?

The first habit of highly effective date people from Stephen Covey's book the seven habits of highly effective people is number one be pro active. 

Be proactive!  What is to be proactive. It means that you take responsibility for your life you're not a victim you cannot control your's circumstances but you can controls your response so being proactive means that you take responsibility for your life. You take action and you respond the way a leader does by taking responsibility.